Whose rules are you playing by? Whose standards are you judging yourself with? I believe in being the judges of our own beauty and strength. And I’m not talking about lowering standards, I’m talking about refusing to play by someone else’s rules.
If you try to change yourself to become what other people want, if you attempt to imitate what is popular, you will be letting yourself down. We are all different for a reason. We have plenty to offer just the way we are.
Change is good. It can turn your strengths into invincible powers. Sometimes you get sick of sitting in the chair so you build a standing desk. Sometimes you grow bored of painting so you dive into sculpture. Whatever is happening in your world, don’t stop. Continue to try different things. Soon things will click and doors will open.